The Importance of Asking the Right Question

The quality of insight you receive from Tarot largely depends on how well you frame your questions. When you ask thoughtful, well-constructed questions, you’re more likely to receive meaningful and comprehensive answers. Conversely, vague or poorly formulated questions often lead to unsatisfying or confusing responses.

Let’s explore this concept through two contrasting examples:

Example of a limiting question: Asking the Tarot: “Will I EVER find love?” and drawing The Hermit might lead to the interpretation: “No, you’re destined to remain alone forever.” This reading leaves you with anxiety and disappointment, especially if your actual desire was to find love within a reasonable timeframe.

Example of an empowering question: Instead, asking: “What can I do to create the love life I desire?” and drawing The Hermit offers a more constructive interpretation: “To find meaningful love within your desired timeframe, you need a period of self-reflection. Use this time to clarify what you truly want in a relationship. This solitude will help you connect with your deeper emotions, significantly increasing your chances of finding authentic and lasting love.” This reading provides practical guidance and leaves you feeling optimistic and empowered.

The way you frame your question profoundly influences the guidance you receive, affecting your ability to achieve your goals and manifest your dreams.

How to Ask a Good Question?

Avoid closed-ended questions—those that can be answered with a simple yes or no. Such questions limit the depth and nuance of the response, often missing crucial context and additional insights that could be valuable to your situation.

Instead, opt for open-ended questions that invite deeper exploration. For example, rather than asking “Will I find a new job?” consider “What has been holding me back from finding a fulfilling career that aligns with my skills and values?” While the first question constrains the response to a binary answer, the second opens up a space for understanding underlying patterns and identifying specific actions you can take toward your goal.

Preparing Yourself for the Reading

The state of mind in which you approach your Tarot reading is crucial. After a busy day, residual stress and mental chatter can interfere with your connection to your intuition. Since your subconscious mind holds the keys to understanding the Tarot’s messages, it’s essential to create a calm and receptive state before beginning your reading.

Take time to center yourself through this simple meditation practice:

1. Find a quiet space and sit comfortably
2. Close your eyes and turn your attention inward
3. Focus on your breath, ensuring it reaches deep into your abdomen
4. Place a hand on your belly to verify proper breathing—it should rise slightly with each inhalation
5. Continue this deep, rhythmic breathing for 10 cycles
6. When you feel centered and calm, open your eyes, pose your question, and select your cards

This preparation helps create the mental clarity and emotional receptivity necessary for a meaningful Tarot reading.